Creating Custody Agreements for the School Year: A Guide for Co-Parent

As the school year approaches, co-parents everywhere are reviewing their custody arrangements and asking themselves: “Is this going to work for our child’s academic success and emotional well-being?” 

At The Sherer Law Firm, we believe in sharing the burden and carrying the load and that means helping parents create clear, thoughtful custody agreements that make school life smoother for everyone involved. 

Here’s what to consider when creating or updating your custody agreement for the school year: 

1. School Day Schedule vs. Weekend Schedule 

Tip: Define who has custody during weekdays, weekends, and holidays specifically during the school year. 

• Who is responsible for school drop-off and pickup? 

• Does the schedule accommodate after-school activities or tutoring? 

• Are both parents on the approved pick-up list at school? 

Make sure the plan reflects your child’s needs and each parent's availability 

2. Decision-Making for Education 

Tip: Your agreement should state who has legal custody when it comes to educational decisions. 

• Who chooses the school? 

• Who attends parent-teacher conferences? 

• How are report cards and school notices shared? 

  
  

Clear guidelines help prevent conflict and confusion. 

3. Holiday & School Break Calendars 

Tip: School calendars vary, so plan ahead. 

Be specific about: 

• Fall breaks 

• Thanksgiving and Winter holidays 

• Spring break 

• Teacher planning days 

  
  

Don’t forget to rotate or alternate years if that works best for your family dynamic. 

4. Communication and Technology 

Tip: Establish expectations for parent-to-parent communication and access to the child during school days. 

• Will you use Talking Parents, Our Family Wizard, or text? 

• Can your child call or FaceTime the other parent after school? 

• How are urgent matters communicated? 

Strong communication boundaries = smoother transitions. 

5. Shared Expenses for Education 

Tip: Address who will pay for: 

• School supplies 

• Uniforms 

• Lunch accounts 

• Field trips 

• Private school tuition or tutoring 

A detailed expense-sharing plan avoids future disputes and ensures your child’s needs are covered. 

6. Consistency Between Homes 

Tip: Kids thrive on routine. Discuss consistent expectations around: 

• Homework time 

• Bedtime 

• Screen time 

• Study habits 

  
  

A united front on education helps your child succeed. 

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Whether you’re just beginning your co-parenting journey or need to adjust an outdated plan, The Sherer Law Firm is here to help. We’ll guide you through creating a school-year-friendly custody agreement that prioritizes your child’s best interests while also keeping peace between parents. 

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